How easily can you forgive?
Suzie Suzie

How easily can you forgive?

Can you transform all those negative thoughts towards another human into forgiveness? Can you say - I can see you are human, you are on a life path where you are learning and growing and I forgive you for what happened? Can you, at a minimum, think to yourself - You hurt me, I wish it didn’t happen, but I forgive you.

Being really upset, angry and even despising someone is really draining and really damaging.

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The words we speak ~ how to write lipstick affirmations
Suzie Suzie

The words we speak ~ how to write lipstick affirmations

....I am not immune to looking in the mirror and saying – what the XX&% are you doing Suzie.

I have those days, but these days I am quicker to catch myself tearing down the woman that looks at me from the mirror.

Do you do that?

I do it when I see the new wrinkles.

I do it when I have made the bad decisions.

the difference is now, I absolutely do recognise her kind eyes looking back at me, I see her trying her best and being a really good human.

It did bug me for some time that the natural route would be to pick on that person looking back at me, not always, but sometimes without me even knowing.

Before I knew she (me) had just gone for a shower and come back out talking her self out of the next step = giving up!

So you know what I did – just to shake things up a bit I got out the red lipstick and wrote – in big bold letters in squishy lipstick style right across the mirror I look in each day with the words….don’t give up.

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Every thought has energy…ripple affects of negativity and the energy it carries.
Suzie Suzie

Every thought has energy…ripple affects of negativity and the energy it carries.

The ripple effects of negativity and the energy it carries. Did you know that…

  • a thought has a measure of energy to it…

  • a word has even more energy…

  • and an action even more energy than that….

I have always thought that speaking negative words and taking negative action was not good thing to do.

To speak badly of others never feels good afterwards. I do not like that feeling at all, and being actively horrible to someone does not make me feel better, I actually just feel worse!

And thoughts… we have a gazillion thoughts a day, thousands of them. I guess there are negative ones in my head at times too if I am honest. But all of these thoughts have energy to it, they give out an energy wave to the world.

Take note.   Your thoughts count!

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